孩子,我只想听你说”我错了“

    昨天发生的一件事让我内心充满了挫败感。

    首先还是介绍一下事件的背景吧:因为已经是六年级毕业班了,所以学生们买了一本补充练习,为了多一些的习题强化。因为都是学生自己去买的,所以等学生做好交来给我改的时候,我才发现学生买的版本竟然不同,因为版本不同所以有将近四分之一的同学的练习册中部分内容有所变动,有的是整道题不一样,有些是题目没变,但题目中的数字变了,这些孩子的计算过程和结果当然与其他孩子的不同。我发现这个问题以后,觉得这并不影响学生练习,只是给我的作业批改带来一点小小的麻烦,于是我对这些孩子说无需再买一本练习了,就这么做,我照改。没想到就是这样的一个小小的错误,却暴露了某孩子抄袭作业的问题。这个孩子平时作业完成的比较不错,正确率很高。但是每次考试成绩又不是很理想,这很让我百思不得其解。
    我是怎么发现他抄作业的呢?原来在利息这一章节的练习中有一道题,交来的作业中四分之三同学的这道题中都是:5000元钱存银行三年,年利率是4.25%。而四分之一的同学这道题是老的版本,内容也是5000元钱存银行3年,但年利率却是2.25%。这位同学买的练习册是老的版本,因此年利率是2.25%,结果他在这道题下的解题过程用到的年利率却是4.25%,跟用新版本同学的答案完全一样。我非常震惊,把这位同学找来,询问作业书写的情况,他一口咬定所有的作业都是自己做的,问他为什么题目中是2.25%,为什么算式中是4.25%,回答我三个字:“看错了”。看来这位是俗话说的“不见棺材不掉泪”的主,于是我将两种不同版本的题目摆在他面前,心想看你还能不承认抄袭作业,结果这位是“见了棺材也不掉泪”,依然强调作业都都是自己做的。说真的,当时我心里就是一个念头:绝不能让你蒙混过关。我让他必须给我解释清楚在什么样的“机缘巧合”之下,能让他将数字这样“看”错。就是这样,他也不承认自己抄别人作业。直到最后,才说自己不会这道题问别人的。我于是问他问谁的。结果他告诉我一个名字,让我更加无语,他所说的问的这个人是我自教这个班十次考试有九次不及格,一直稳居班级倒数第二名的人,明显是敷衍之词。一怒之下,让他给家长打电话,我要就这个问题与家长见面交流解决,结果这位同学依然很冷静的说:“我不记得爸爸妈妈的电话号码。”我的火腾的上来,强烈要求他下午必须与家长一起到校,我与他无话可谈。
    当天中午的时候我与这位同学的家长电话沟通了一下,约了第二天下午见面谈谈,今天下午的时候这位同学的妈妈来校,我们整整聊了一节课的时间。我把事情的前因后果向家长叙述了一遍,向家长指出了孩子在思想品德上的问题,家长也向我诉苦,说孩子平时在家里也有这样的毛病,最后我们达成共识:一要加强孩子的思想教育,二要加强作业书写的管理。
    事情看似圆满的解决了,可我的心情却没有很快平复。是什么样的原因让一个才十二岁的孩子失去了承担责任的勇气,是我的原因吗?还是一味追求高分,又娇惯溺爱孩子的家长造就?是否依附在应试教育之下的学校教育也起到了推波助澜的作用?

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